Hey guys! First off, I’m so happy that there are submissions being sent in. I love this so much I can’t wait to help! Continue to send in submissions and tell other friends about our newspaper and my column. So first, a junior submitted his situation where apparently his girlfriend is seemingly moody and twisting words.

With that, I’m gonna start by saying that we are so close to becoming adults, and there’s so much on our minds. From her perspective, she’s probably just going through a lot of stress and maybe really shouldn’t even be in a relationship right now, which may hurt to hear; she needs to work on herself.

You should most definitely talk to her about it if you haven’t already. Maybe schedule a dinner date or call her and explain your feelings to her. Not in an argumentative way, but in a very understanding and comforting way so she can feel well enough to open up to you. You can even take a break and come back to each other if you really need to. You also need to think about if you could be doing something that you’re not noticing.

Also, take note that girls have a lot of emotions and feelings going through them all the time, making it difficult to be more positive. Just be considerate but not quiet about your own feelings. I can already tell you actually like this girl considering you took the time out of your day to try and get help, which a lot of boys never do. But you’re trying to fix things and trying to get help which is showing great effort. Just communicate and give this some time to hopefully improve. 

The same advice applies to women or any other gender. Please stay positive and don’t give up on a relationship if you really like them. Just communicate and get through it.